Coaching

 Coaching for gender, challenging patriarchy and family dynamics/matters

 

 

 

 I dislike binarity cause I don't believe in it, I don't need it and I don't support a system who is so narrow and wrong.  
 I have learn all my life to dismantle it as much as I can. And I still do.
 We are surrounded by it all the time and everywhere. They are part of our mindsets. 

 Coaching is a tool allowing each of you to face a situation, to deal with it and to find the best way to overcome the difficulties in order to   archieve your goals.

 Each of you will have this own challenges, blocades and also wishes.
 My role it's to follow your desires, to help you in expressing your needs and to be the correct support at each step.
 My goal is to see you to blossom in archieving what you want.

 In my life experience I have accumulated some knowledge and tecnics that Ill be happy to use the adecuate ones,  with you.

 Im aware that everything doesn't pass to anyone.    
 Working as a team will be the best frame for choosing what's the best for YOU!

 

 However I want to work with people who have done some work about the whitesupremacistheteronormativableist system that our society   imposes on anyone. 

 I want to offer a space where some realities doesn't need to be explain where we will be able to focus faster in the priorities....
 

 I wanna work with the people that are more in need for safer spaces and trying to avoid extra arm that we have to endure while being in a white   supremacist world, where all of us are impregnated with the values that belong to it,

 I prefer to share my time my energy my knowledge with people who are aware about it and are willing to learn ways of rising and build new   solidarities to create a nicer world where we create new challenges.

 

 I offer coaching for self empowerment in general and more particularly 

    ◆    to gender entanglement like Trans, Inter and Non binary questioning identities...
          that's connected to yourself, your kid, your partner, or any family member and              
          you want to find the best way for handle this issue while being YOU and    
          finding space   n yourself for supporting the people dealing with it, to be them.

 

    ◆    To challenge patriarchy in ways we can be aware of the weight it's producing in us and change what disturb us, limit us to be and act the way we want. The patriarchy norms are so large and are deep in all of us. We don't use to discuss them, as they are seen as legitimate, authentic and unchangeable like pillars And together we can check where the burdens are and what are the possibilities to build  new    systems where you feel comfortable and at ease developing new behaviors and ways of thinking.

    ◆    To question your child desire as a queer person.

    ◆    To challenge family dynamics where you're not satisfied with and you want to change them in order to live nicer and peacefully together and reduce the resistance and discomfort that you are feeling and certainly the others family members as well.

 

 I believe we can provide and learn to create spaces in us and also around us where we include people and not exclude them. 
 It's not about tolerance because we are being active in wanting to dismantle rigid structures where the inclusion is the key.

 I believe that nourishing frames and norms that are narrow influence the way we are. And there are many other ways we can be and others as well.
 We live together and there's ways to experience it in the best way for all of us without being what the others are.    
 Norms can be discuss, challenged and readjust for who we are and who we wanna be.

 

 I offer  a space where you can search for your needs, unlearn and to free yourself from (patriarchy) norms that aren't resonate with your   beliefs   and you wanna explore new way of being you.

 I'm an open minded person and I will with my experience and kindness support you to understand yourself and look in the direction you want. 
 It's my duty to be there for you for the matters that are important for you. 

 I'll accompany you during all the process as you need and wish until you reach /achieve your goal(s) or find ways to do it.
 And all will be possible as you are ready to do a work where you will allow you to access the new version of yourself you were longing   for.

@ademeomi